A couple working together as a team is a lot like two partners beginning a business. At first, the two partners are excited about what they are building. They hold a vision for their future, and they are aware of their own and each other’s talents and desires. Plans are made with an expectation of […]
Turning around a Painful Relationship with Couples Therapy
Recently, during a particularly difficult session, one partner threw his hands in the air and said, “This is just hopeless. It’s never going to change. We’re doomed.” When a couple is involved in an emotionally charged therapy session, they don’t realize that this is a replication of the feedback loop from their relationship. This feedback […]
The Importance of Emotions in Relationships.
Ten tips for talking with your partner about your emotions. The role of emotions is quite often misunderstood in relationships. I have heard many clients state with frustration “Why do we have to talk about how I feel about things. My partner just needs to forget the past and be happy now. I’ve said I’m […]
The Art of Apology Part 2
The Art of Apology How to Deepen Your Relationship by Saying You’re Sorry (Second in a 2-part series) There is a second piece to the Art of Apology, it is the art of accepting an apology. If you are feeling hurt or angry you may not be inclined to readily let go of your feelings […]
The Art of Apology Part 1
How to Deepen Your Relationship by Saying You’re Sorry What is an Apology? An apology is a genuine expression of regret or remorse for having said or done something that offended your partner. Why Apologizing is Crucial to Your Relationship? If you want greater intimacy in your relationship, offer a genuine apology when your partner […]